Depends on the embassy you apply from regarding income evidence for Muay Thai Option. Some require it. You do not need steady income for the workcation option.Freelancing alludes to irregular income
That is too bad you were rejected but many are approved 2nd time around. Did you receive requests for further paperwork? How long was your SP course?. There are recent Lao approvals in the threads.
Revolut has been accepted by HCMC for funds proof. Your 500k should be in a personal account not business. Not necessary to say it came from family. You need to show income deposits from your work, I showed 6 months of income/statements(Taipei). I don't think your uncle owning a house will give you bonus points outside of having somewhere to stay. There is the main DTV FB group which has a lot of Vietnam DTVER posts to help your application
It is ok to visit anywhere in Vietnam after you submit your application in Hanoi. You need to stay in the country post submission. Extremely rare to be asked for an interview but if so then you just return to Hanoi.