@Ruth ******
Honestly, it seems like people who dye their hair these unnatural colors are trying too hard to stand out, because they're unhappy with something about themselves. It is a way to mask insecurity rather than true self-expression. Instead of dealing with those issues, they're using bright colors to distract or deflect attention from what’s really going on inside. I genuinely hope that people who go to such extremes can find peace and confidence without needing such drastic measures. No way in hell is it more attractive in any way possible, the women who tell you are just lying to you, bec that's what women do to other women, they'll tell the nasty fat woman who nobody wants that she looks good, pathetic.
So i feel sorry for you and hope you get the help you need, life is hard for everyone,
But you have no idea about the marriage, look at statistics,
Marriages based on exchange of value are always more successful, bs Hollywood movie induced love marriages are always unsuccessful. You obviously wouldn't know what I'm talking about, don't start a debate with me, unless you are well informed, i will absolutely destroy whatever self-esteem you may have left,
Wish you goodluck, hope you get the help you need Ruth