Let us give this thread a rest. The world is too full of hate and hurt. We don’t need to add any more.
I have travelled the world and lived in various countries. Thailand comes closest to my ideal resting place. Nothing is perfect but Thailand comes closest for me.
The only time I experienced anything near what you described was on my visit to the immigration office in Chon Buri. I was told I would encounter disrespect there but it shocked me just the same.