Is my Thai girlfriend using me for money?

Tell her chuff off.she wants only your money

You didn't even need to ask the question. You know the answer.....

Well maybe you should have listened to the advise back in 2022 and you would've be asking any questions today.

Some tips to all:

- ask her to be friends in Facebook. Any excuses must raise red flag

- call her outside the time patterns. If time difference make the effort to call jet at bet 7pm, 8pm, 10pm 11.30pm

- notice how long the conversations last. Usually at the beginning they are long and many weeks later they are only a couple of minutes

Don’t be stupid think with the 🧠

This is a classic clickbait post !

No. Don't do it.

You are a Buffalo your function is to be rode

You need here as she need you.

8.000 monthly ok, more mean you are her customer.

Then run, have a lot if girls​ availables.

A thai.ladie will always ask​ money, as a western​ ladie!!

No no

Nooooooo.

The right woman wouldn't ask.

A not stay in Thailand not really life hire a go to Philippines borders now open 10 February

Is this a real question 😂⁉️

Don't contact her at set times, be implusive. If you don't get to speak to her when you ring her, then you need to be slightly concern, if the excuses start to flow, then your concern should be highten.

Use your feelings as a matter between two people. Other people didn't know her. No one can help you figure that out if the person doesn't know your girlfriend yet. She will use you or ask for help. You should be able to feel it for yourself. Good luck

Basically, it depends on where you had met her....Did you meet her in the bar areas or entertainment districts? Then that relationship will likely fail! She is likely doing that to several Western guys and making quite a lucrative business off scamming Western guys who really mean well. This is a well-known scam among Thai girls from the entertainment districts.

There are a lot of great Thai girls who are not from the entertainment area.....great wife-making material.

Can you meet a great Thai girl from the entertainment district....SURE! But the chances of doing so are so slim that I personally would NOT do it!

If that is the case.....then tread very carefully!

How long are you with her? What does she need it for? What does she do for a living? Every situation is different.

Is she beautiful? Are you using her beauty? 🙂

If you want to get really robed marry a woman in the west they are very expensive whors who take all including your house and children and demand ransom to see your children.

bht is a lot of money in Thailand!!!!! Remember the average wage for a Thai person working as a waitress or 7-11 is 8 to 10 thousand a month! If she is a supervisor or manger she’ll get about plus service charge. If you send you’ll be sending 5 months salary!! 😜

Okay. To everyone. My ex for 13 years, also asked for ‘support’……. After getting her and her daughter over to Europe, paying for her house, basically talking care of her everything……She left me once she got Belgium nationality. If you don’t want to join the Pattaya flying club, Than please take a girl that doesn’t ask for money, same I found now. It really feels much better and more real. Good luck to you all, and may god bless you…

Send

She's not your GF

Have seen many men comes to Bangkok goes to bar / pubs at Sukhumvit Soi 4 ( Nana ), Soi cowboy ( soi 23 ), patpong ( silom ) and pattaya and Phuket.

Offer drinks to bar girls and finally fall in love with romantic talkings ( broken heart guys ) and repeatedly comes back & more comes closer, finally thought that those are their GF AND the rest is above example.

I was asking to myself... are those guys stupid consciously or are just stupid and that’s all 🤔

Girl friend is yours, you didn't shared how much you enjoyed!!! But you come to ask here how you handle your GF, isn't it funny and childish!!! doubtful how old you are ?

Don't send the money and see how long she sticks around for. You will soon be able to tell whether she's in it for you, or the cash.

Let me guess ....you met online or at a bar on your last visit. Send all your money. ASAP !

Send her all your money !! Shes probably got a sick buffalo that's need immediate attention and a brother or family member in the hospital that needs an operation !! Send money !!!

You have more than you need, just give the extra money to her. Never know, her water buffalo might be sick.

Get urself an educated lady with a good job not a bar girl

I'm Thai girl. I think you were deceived.

better love if you send money

send what feels comfortable and doesn’t burden you, there is no set figure amount,

i would say if it’s new not a lot until you meet as your life changes so will the money involved.

problem is majorly of the advice you will receive will be from people who have been fucked over. and set a limit because they have that fear of it happening again.

not all girls are bad not all are good

don’t let the excitement of love cloud your vision, or you will miss the signs of a bad girl,

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I never forget when my friend told the story about the Soi girl in Bangkok was walking up and down a bar with her phone all day trying to organise her nightmare as all 5 supportive “boyfriends” was coming to Bangkok same time. They all wanted her service and presence.. she was mega stressed and went from one hotel/Condonto another …. but hey, up to you ! (BTW Happily married with a Thai. She support me ! It’s my CEO. Choose wisely)

Made the mistake of thinking she really loved me after we met and spent one month together. How dumb was I? We met on thaifriendly. After spending 80 000 thb on her I tried to send less one month. Immediately she started emotional blackmail on me to get more. That's when I realized she will never be happy and always want more and more money. So I left her. What did I in the end get out of it? Well to be frank. One month of best boom boom I had in my life. Money comes money goes but it was the last time I will get involved with a Thai lady for anything more than ST.

Your "girlfriend" have many boyfriends

Hahahahaha

How much you have paid? And do you know her real name and last name and address, or may be bank account...

GF are many if you want. Keep money and give her knowledge to make money.

Long term better as the other a trap until you walk away.

I'm sure you have by this point...the crying, need for family member, I have no money for food, no rent money, the list goes on....pulls on all the heart strings!

Remember ~ teach the fisherman to fish! He will not be hungry and be able to provide!!

Why ask people for advice on this your asking the question means you don't trust her 😂🤣

She ask 100 friends lovers the same amount

Using you as all of them

Send me first

Never Trust a Thai Many foreners know this

Use you bro never Send money to a thay

Depends on what her “real job” is…?

Ask her to send your family money you will soon be deleted from her life 🤡🌶🤡

I will love the one who have no any doubts in me.

So, ask your self that you wanna do it or not. if not , just tell her. that’s it.

If she really love you, she will understand your reason … but if not, you have to think about it…

Shine on brother your trip has just begun. Much love ❣️

Welcome to Thailand

Dick head

If you don't pay rent in Thailand, you'll get evicted. But if you don't live in Thailand, you really don't need an apartment in Thailand anyway. Whatever you do, don't fall for the sick father trick. Search for "sick Thai father" on Google Images and see how many pics you can find. 😂

There are people giving these money to their girls in Thailand

Lucky you only send not buy house for her 😁

😄

As a woman I would never ask for money, would go without or work 16 hr days but would not ask for anything. Don’t do it. She won’t love or respect you more for it.

Does this sound like genuine burning desire?

It depends on how you feel about her ? The Thai Government have given their citizens no support whatsoever and business have been allowed to collapse without support Thai people are having a difficult time they certainly didn’t see the same support we in the UK received look if you can help it’s your choice

Unless you know her (situation) very well, and you offer to help her yourself…. You are being used.

I'm first timer FaceBook someone post ask me for advice..or he just trolling me ? Pls help

I met a farm girl from Korat and it's taken everything I have. But I do so much good for her and her family, it is worth every penny.

If feels good for you then send

No she really love you and so do I,please send me 40 k for my broken Buffalo 🐀please 😁

What you feed, grows. What kind of relationship do you want or expect?

Go suddenly close to ATM machine ! Enjoy

Stick with white girls

Pm me

Not all Thai girl are sluts etc. Like anywhere there is genuine women in Thailand

Sorry but I think she's using you 😖

Pm me. I'm from UK married to Thai 2 yrs. I know where your coming from bro

Run

Depends on you and the girl. You can trust in her or not ? And where you meet with her.

We can do an investigation and find out.

Using you

What you don't know is you are not alone ....she is probably collecting from others as well A juggling act of boyfriends...Or you are one of the few lucky ones. Both are possible just figure it out for yourself..

She's not your G/F, you are one of her customers, it's a business arrangement - no more or no less, there maybe quite a few of you in her life, you will be in the pecking order as to how much you send her,

It's just that she wants to take break from you or break into you unless you are broke.

Catch the next available flight ✈️

Jason, send me the money, I’ll make sure she gets it

If you pay her monthly to be your gf you are hiring a gf.

However, if she is genuin, times are difficult in Thailand, there is no social care not like the UK.

Sending her gifts because you care is different to a contracted monthly payment. Only you know if she is genuine.

Dont start it never stops.

Don't give her a CRACKER ,cut clean the dead wood .

Troll…🙄

Read the book private dancer....thank me later

Be wary of the sick buffalo

Stay away!!!! Run!!!!!

Jesus Christ men are wombles

Is she hot!!! Is she out of your league? How much is she looking for? You have to determine if the pay per play ratio is worth it. Thailand is filled with crusty old men supporting young ladies.

Girls are like crypto, you invest the money that you can afford to lose

Better give her 100,000 in case 50,000 not a nuff to keep her Thai bf in manner there a customed to don't forget gold her birthday o mama very sick need more money 🤑🤑🤑🤑💰💰💰💰💰💰

is the water buffalo sick?

Why do you need same woman go out and enjoy your self 50.000 that’s £12.000

No. Just no. If she's asking for 50,000 she is taking the piss. That should tell you what to do. She prob has another 10 guys online asking for more money from them.

Get shut

Tell her to f..k off

Save yourself the time & effort

I thought my ex was the one and that she was different.

Long story short, she loved my money more than me 😅

I did that from the start 13 years ago and we are now 10 years happily married and have a lovely daughter together so......trust your gut-feeling

This is normal. Its only a start. too much. She will ask you more. Try to understand your relationship. Its whole up to you what u want. If I were you I will get rid of her. How often you visit her.

Are your Question really serious or u just waisting our time ..! .? We’re did u leave ur common sense ? Lost it ?

They need money. But it all depends how you feel about her. But ou money goes a long ways there. Been here for two months and I love it.

I think you know the answer to this one, treat it like gambling don’t spend more than you can afford to lose

Tell her to get a job at big C or central

How did she survive before she met you?

Nah, she’s using you when she asks for money for her sick Water Buffalo

Playing you like a sucker

Scam possible

Always be skeptical, but life can be hard and in times of covid especially in Thailand with a government that has no regards for taking care of its people she could could genuinely need money ..But a few questions you need to know .

Why does she ask you and not friends and family?

Is she educated?

Where is she and her family from ?

Did you meet her in a bar or club where many freelancers go ? And if so, this is the biggest problem .

In most cases a good Thai girl will never ask for money , my partner has never asked me for money in 6years .

Every Expat with a Thai chick I know sends money, it’s part of the deal, no money = no honey! You as a farrang, are expected to support her, it’s just the way it is…

Read Private Dancer. Maybe then you'll understand some things.

If u r rich enough and in 😘💕 enough... Why not ? Just assume u r helping those in need ...

She’s using you And U will using her

You are 1 of many boyfriends

She is your girlfriend, not your wife. Right?

She definitely loves you, by asking for money that's her way of showing her love.

Fake Profile again. Don't feed the Troll

Run baby run!!!

Run away fast!

I gave gf money 3 times to fix her car..it was a scam..not her car.she borrowed it from a friend...her own car is perfect...scam....

IMO if you have to ask, then you just answer your own question

i was with thai girl. i spend money on her. she was with me. but the day she left to her country. she never message me. dont send money. if relationship starts with money then will end soon.

Up to you... make your own mind up.

Yes, For sure! It is a regular well known racket. They do it on thousands of guys. Don’t send money

Have a wank 3 times in a row and then re-evaluate if you really want to send her money. I bet you wont do it.

Think with the big head not the little one

No you don’t have to send her money this month. I already sent her 20,000 Bhat. She love me long time.

Many genuinely are looking for a stable life and can be very loving and caring, I know my gf is.

I am away a lot and support her and when I get to see her it is the best time of my life.

You can’t take your money with you so let it give you happiness while you are alive.

F

No money no honey

She already exists without your money, didn't she? If she will leave you for not playing her, than she was never your girlfriend. Tell her you are out of money and look her reaction 😏

She's not really working at that bar, she's just the cashier, right? 😀

First time but you know Natalie. 🤔😄

This must be a joke 🤣🤣🤣

No, she definitely is not using you mate!!! She really cares and loves you long time! Send her as much you can!

Please think good about your gf

Very likely using you

up to u mate, ur the only one that knows what going on in ur relationship with her..😉

Technically it's rude to ask for money if she's never met you before, apart from if she was literally living on the street. Try telling her no, and see how she treats you after. If you notice a change in her behaviour (less interested etc) then move onto the next.

Kaching,kaching.

Hahaha depends on you how you thinking about her

Don’t do it.

The fact you are asking means you already know the answer deep down.. if a lady from your country asked you for money what would you think? It’s so common here, so if you can give freely and with open heart and not get upset when she is with other men doing the same then go ahead..

so many bad messages!!! of course u MUST send her the money. 80% of the girls i had sex with here in bkk use to receive money from sponsors abroad… and it even happened quite often that they videocalled him/them just before or just after we had sex… so pls don’t be rude and keep sending her what she asks for, otherwise u will destroy MY market/playground!!!!

You must send $5000 every month if you want to keep her otherwise she will replace you by another sweet foreigner

Just don’t transfer

If you need to ask this question then it's definitely a no.

Don't send money! If you think you will lose her if you don't, you are in luck, because they grow women here and there are more than you can imagine. So, find the one that doesn't ask you for money or if it's your desire the one that gives you something in return for your money, both are here in abundance.

Tell her to relax. You need money to sustain your own way of life, once/if you are living together in the future she can have all of you and your money 💰 if its true love ❤

Maybe, she thought 💭 you have no brain 🧠.???? I think you know answer from everyone,but you just would like to see bad response to did lady 😅😂.

She love you. Send the money and she will love you in future too. Or not…

it's depending where she living and what she doing.

during Covid time it's not easy to have a work. Even normally she could survive with her family. But when you love her much and you have the money you could send her monthly 6000 - 8000 thb.

the problem will be, when you reduce later or stop support she would not love you any more... 😢😢

i made same 20 years ago with the girl who is now my wonderful wife since 14 years.

Just read the book “Private Dancer” by Stephen Leather. I say no more.

So sad that A lot of comments in here saying that Thai women are bad. Please don’t forget that’s not everyone.

If you met at a bar or club you are being used.

Many girls have 7 plus guys sending money and ask for more if mom sick, bother motorcycle needs repairs… they have a book in English that tells them how to get rich from farang… but do give something if you want something

Bullshit post

Shameless. Classless. Jobless.

She just using you. I think in your heart of heart’s you know this.

With all due respect - always sceptical to request for money - u know the pudding when such requests are made . So if u want to develop a relationship where u will be supporting her for the rest of your life - then u can send her money ..

Don't all women ask for any county

Sorry but how would anyone else know if you're being used or not. If you don't know, I or others certainly won't.

USING YOU DEFINITELY !!!

Also thai girls who actually like you never ask for money.

Troll post. In his Facebook profile you can see him making the same “Buffalo joke” in the picture comments 6 months ago.

However it gets some funny comments here 😁

I know a Nigerian Prince that can make you rich, you jsit need to transfer me 50k to ensure you investment 😝.

Don’t try it.

12 years ago, I was in your shoes. I am $10k lighter now, for nothing. This is the first rule of Thailand: don't send money from your home country.

They have many men doing the same thing

555 - first check how many sponsors she has, before you decide to send money...

Feel free to send me money for no reason haha

Troll alert- the OP is not serious.

Will love you .until your money runs out….

How much money?

Send me too 🤣🤣🤣

Run to them hills AtM

Only you can find the answer, because no one know her. I know a woman receiving money every month by a Finnish man, since more than four years, but she doesn't love him, moreover she had planned to have a house built by his money, and then send him away, but until now this guy hasn't been so idiot to do it. The vipers move sinuously, but they remain vipers.

Don't listen to these fools, sent her all your money . All of it . And she will love you even more and forever and ever.

Just give her your debit card with PIN number but remember to tell her only to use it in emergencies…

Short answer. No!

Here's what we can do, send it to me and give me her contact information, I will hold it while I interview her concerning her sincerity toward you. If she fails the sincerity test(and I have a full proof test) I'll send the money back to you, swear to God.

No money no honey….

They all want money 💰 but Good luck 🤣🤣🤣

Don't let your little head rule your big head .wait until you decide if your going to live hear with her or not .then and only then come over and give her a monthly allowance that you can afford .

Its normal you fuck not free

Click bait

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Do you have the ability to send her money? More importantly.. do you have the desire and willingness to?

Resentment can build up fast.. she may have more money than you! Maybe not cash.. But land and gold.

Send her money she loves you

Doctor Phil to the rescue, i have read your story and he is my suggestion =your girlfriend is Not using u, she is actually deeply madly in love with u.. I proscribe following action= wise her this instant with as much cash as u possibly can🤑🤑🤑🤑

Send but no more than you usually spend for dinner. And see what happens )

Depending on how much, if it not much, and you love her, and you have more than enough.. Why not ? only you know her , noone else in here know her more than you.

Love and good relationship will not start with money. 😉

Depends on so many reasons...

How long you been together

What do get in return

Do you love her

If you say no does she treat you like shit

Does she have a job

Does she have kids

What reason she need money

??????

Troll post 100%

Be afraid very afraid 😂😂

Blacklist her number... Remember this! a girl won't forever be 18yrs old...but there will always have 18yrs old girls..😂

Be wary…

LOL ...

She isn’t using you, we are going out tonight and want you to pay

Do not send money. You will never get your money back. This happens over and over again for decades.

Love so you have to help her

Theres other guys fцСk¡Иg her for free