@Monzi ************
thanks for answering the question, and for being understanding…. Ya, I didn’t expect a question about a seemingly innocent difference (meal prep & laundry) would get a few people so riled up. Geesh! Imagine posting about abortion rights, race, religion or politics 🫣. I think you’re right. I’ve experienced that toxic ‘know-it-all’ culture in stables (rode n shown all my life)- I often see veteran riders/trainers tease ‘newbies’ as though they forgot that they too were once the student. In my 43 years I’ve learned that everybody just needs to show each other a little grace, ‘Er on the side of kindness. 😊