you can't apply for a Non-O inside Thailand if you do not yet have a Thai bank account with 800,000 THB already sitting in it . . nowwhere did the OP mention they already have a Thai bank account . .for an application to the Non-O VISA outisde of Thailand, you can use funds in ANY bank account anywhere in the World as long as you prove it is in your sole name . .this is the part where you were wrong, or better, where you didn't explain it correctly
the threadstarter obviously is U.S. American citizen, their embassy in Bangkok does not issue an income affidavit any more. They BOTH must show a minimum of 800,000 THB in each's bank account at least in the first year (for the visa, it can be money in a US bank account, for the application to the 1-year extension, the money must have been sitting in a Thai bank account for 2 months)
Most Thai embassies worldwide have discontinued handing out Non-O Dependent Visas. No more new applications possible.
You BOTH need to be over 50 years old, and you both need to apply for the 90-days Non-Imm-O Retirement Visa, each on his/her own, fulfilling the requirements of the e-visa system of the Thai embassy or consulate in your country.
You and your partner BOTH need a minimum of 800,000 THB in each one's Thai bank account in your sole names, seasoned for 2 months on the day you apply for the 1-year extension . .
Once you have set up your Thai bank accounts, you can start to transfer every month a minimum of 65,000 THB, proven it comes from abroad, into your accounts, for 12 consecutive months, not missing one single month.
You can then use a 12-months bank statement for the 1-year extension application in the second year. Once it got issued, you can both pull the 800,000 THB out of your Thai bank accounts
However most Thai embassies worldwide have discontinued handing out Non-O Dependent Visas. No more new applications possible. The OP and his partner BOTH need a minimum of 800,000 THB in each one's Thai bank account in their sole name, seasoned for 2 months on the day they apply for the 1-year extension . . Once they have set up their Thai bank accounts, they can start to transfer every month a minimum of 65,000 THB, proven it comes from abroad, into their accounts, for 12 consecutive months, not missing one single month. They can then use a 12-months bank statement for the 1-year extension in the second year. Once it got issued, they can pull the 800,000 THB out of their accounts
you are partially wrong - check the red line! For an application in the E-Visa online system to the Non-O visa in England, they can use their original UK marriage documents. Only for the application to the 1-year extension of the stay permit on Immigration inside Thailand, they need a freshly printed Kor Ror 22 from an Amphur
you mentioned you got married by muslim ceremony. Muslim or buddhist ceremonies are NOT considered a legal marriage. Only marriages that got registered on an Amphur in Thailand are legally acknowledged marriages
you can get the 90-days Non-Imm-O marriage Visa in the UK with your UK marriage documents, but in order to apply in Thailand on Immigration for the 1-year extension of the stay permit, you need your marriage registered inside Thailand because Immigration wants to see a Kor Ror 22 marriage registry printout from the Amphur. You need to get your marriage legalized on the Royal Thai Embassy London, and co-legalized in Thailand
then you don't have any "visa". You have a 12-months extended stay permit. The visa you started with, already became invalid the moment you entered Thailand on it. And it doesn't matter - every Non-Thai needs to fill out the online TDAC before every entry into Thailand
if you wish to apply for the 1-year extension, first rule is, the money must have been sitting in your Thai bank account for TWO MONTHS and the bank must issue a letter for the Immigration, in which they confirm this. You cannot just apply for the extension before this "deposit seasoning" period has passed