therapy may help you. I am more in to self healing as I have no longer any need gor anything a therapist can offer. I digress, you know nothing about me so do one. Not interested in anything you have to say.
if anyone actually consistently knew what the rules were then that would be a good starting place. Look at the millions who are unhappy about where they reside, doesn't stop them remaining though does it?
you have one half of the country trying to make improvements on a failing system and the other half and people like you pretending nothing was ever wrong. Not really a good situation. And to comment on reality us a crime?