What is best way to transfer money for a retirement visa then monthly drawdowns on pension thanks.

I did a Bank Wire Transfer from the USA (Wells Fargo) to my friends Thailand bank account on November 8. It says arrival by November 20, & still has not arrived. I can’t understand why this transaction doesn’t take seconds, or even 1-2 days. Any ideas?

Thanks for the advise on my last question. We've got another. I've seen lots on here with people recommending Wise for the transfer of money into a Thai bank account. I've also looked at just doing a wire from my bank account. I may be missing something but it seems cheaper doing it that way. Here's my calculations:

Wise - first I assume wise takes the money from my bank by ACH so there is no cost there. Moving $25000 usd Wise will cost about $150. My Thai bank will charge 250 baht to accept the wire.

Wire from my bank - it costs $15 for the wire, my Thai bank converts it at the bank standard rate which is fairly consistent. Today's rate for such a transfer was only about 1000 baht difference, about $30. So the cost is about $45, and the Thai bank will again charge the 250 baht wire fee.

Please tell me if I am missing something. Thanks.