Don't you ever watch the news? Last week Thailand shut off power, water and internet to close down scam centres along the border with Myanmar. 120,000 imprisoned scammers freed. They had even kidnapped a Chinese actor. Reported on in many international news feeds, YouTube doco, etc
While there are many Chinese tourists and families here English is still the 2nd most spoken language in Thailand. It's taught in schools and uni students can't graduate unless they pass in English. I've noticed a significant
improvement in oral English over the last 27 years I've been here.
Looking at the comments above, I'd go to Malaysia. Obviously Thailand is not for you. A free spirit is someone who takes it as it comes and adapts, but it appears you are either unwilling too, or most likely cannot deal with uncertainty.