Another thing I would suggest is to do this by yourself with minimal help from your Thai girlfriend.  Going into immigration speaking half Thai and half English stuff can get really confusing. I’ve seen it a lot. Stick to English and do it all by yourself and you’ll be better off in the long run. Thai people know very little about Thai visas just the same as an American wouldn’t know much about US visas since they don’t need one.
If you already have a bank account just transfer the money over and get the Non O issued in Thailand. I got my Non O in Thailand based on retirement it’s 2000 baht. The only reason to apply for a non-o in Laos is if you don’t have a bank account already.
I forgot more about visas then you will ever know you baldy jock. Seems you have no idea about taxes in Thailand and you really shouldn’t be commenting on stuff.