Yes, if it were 18 months ago. Now, it's tough. Those agents in Pattaya are scared to death right now to take your money. But you just have to find the right one at the right price. Good luck.
I live in Bkk and the private schools here are crazy. Just make sure figure out how to ship her to the states for university. Best thing to do is keep your address in the state and get her an ID at 16 so she can avoid paying out of state tuition. Good luck.
I would advise moving here until your daughter is off to college. You're looking at 10-20k usd a year for private school. I am not even mention about the many disadvantages that she will face growing up here. Thailand is no place for a family unless you sre the Uber rich.
I rode my bike today and observed all those violations. I saw a traffic cop on his bike and two Thai guys without a helmet in front of them. Nothing was done.
You're not the first farang to buy their lady friend a house. For a purchase this big, use a wire transfer. Just write down it is for her to buy a house.