if you can't really take your money with you then wouldn't it be better than to use the money to party it up instead of dumping it on a house. You can't take the house with you but those memories of you partying it up will go to the grave with you.
what makes you think he won't have a couple of side pieces while he's back in action in Thailand. The wife will take everything from him in her land once she finds out.
Hold your horses there buddy. Your wife owns the land and if you choose to build the house on it then she will thank you for it. As for the visa, you will always have to renew it depending on which type. But to really answer your question, you will waste money building something that will never be yours.
the food is not even spot on. The produce and meat are substandard and the cooks just crank it out asap. They don't even want to cook. It is okay at best.