yes, people don't understand that America is a hustle society. We are actually the hardest working country on Earth. The amount of grind and sweat that I put in Los Angeles for the last 15 years wore me out. But I am glad I am able to retire in Thailand currently at my age.
I understand, the the US government is stubborn. My ex Thai gf was given a 10 year tourist visa to the US but she works for Cathy Pacific. You can get approved, but the steps are going to be crazy hard. Interviews after interviews and it is not going to be easy.
when you grow up in poverty and given an opportunity to make more money, it is an easy decision to make. We have so many people risking their lives to cross the border illegally for a reason. I agree that not everyone wants to live in the US. But one thing the USA is great at is the Ameriva Dream. The ability to make a fortune on your talent and hard work.