nah. Western Men head to developing countries usually because they can't get a good pick of the crop in their own countries. Let's not be putting the blame on women and be realistic here. The dynamics change in developing countries because you have more status being a foreigner and having cash.
Most guys with healthy relationships with Thai women are the same kind of guys who have (and can have) healthy relationships with any women (including Western). Just that Thai women are more likely to tolerate a western man's shit than a western woman, because western women have more options and more independence.
Cheers all who commented with constructive advice. (All others need to get something more interesting in their lives.) I'll turn off commenting as I don't use Facebook much and I got the answer I needed. Cheers