Check out the METV , it should work well for your needs. Either that or the DTV. You can go in and out with the visa exempt but they are being more stringent with that because of several problems associated with it. You would face scrutiny but given your profession and reason for visiting , it’s unlikely to be a problem. Just be prepared to answer the immigration officers inquiries and read up on the requirements for entry.
Hotel itinerary and cash on hand are the two big ones.
To answer the query , “What does the IO being female have to do with it “?
It’s been suggested that the female immigration officers are a little more meticulous when questioning the purpose of the visit to the kingdom , Whereas , the male immigration officers are not. Glad I could help you understand the gentleman’s observation.
From my point of view and having had to go through the checkpoint at BKK , I was surprised by the female IO that I was questioned by when I arrived this October. She adamantly implied that I needed a visa and almost didn’t admit me ; Fortunately , she summoned her ( male ) supervisor and after a pleasant exchange , he allowed me to enter as I have always done .
Tell us more about your strange fantasy. It’s almost as if you want to the internet to know all about your peculiar fetish . Do you need mental health assistance ?