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@Us ****
There was this Thai woman from Bangkok. She was making friends with “rich” people. Then have a drink together. Poison and watch them dying. Just to steal 200k THB. She did this to 15 or more people. 70k is a lot of money for some.
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@Bonnie ********
I said that it’s my experience. And you hear stuff from friends or read stories on the web. There are millions of women. Everyone is different.

But it could be me who sends money while she fcks around using my money. That’s what I consider now when I have a girlfriend or date. If you give something, don’t have any expectations from her and think the worst so you won’t be disappointed. Again, my experience and my reality. Yours might be very different.

Dating apps and Instagram changed the world a lot.
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@Mary *******
Yes definitely. The area plays a big role too, yes. It was Bangkok and Phuket. And the girls there learn extremely fast.
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@Mary *******
The problem is, they are like a black hole (from my personal experience). You can throw as much money in as you want, it just makes them happy for a day or two and then it’s forgotten and they looking for the next thing.

And the worst is, they ain’t loyal even if you spent a fortune. I was on the “lucky” side of things because I had two girls who were cheating on their falang bfs with me. Dudes sending money and they fkk around.

One even was as evil as the dude send her money for valentines and she bought present and some candles with the money to have a romantic valentines with me. Then she took romantic pictures of the candle in my apartment and shared stories “I love you so much, this candle burns for you” and stuff like that. It all was really heartbreaking to watch.

Both none bar girls. None prostitutes. Both have regular jobs.

That made me realize to not invest any serious feelings into the ladies here (or anywhere in the world).
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@Leo *****
In the modern cities like Bangkok or Phuket they catch up I noticed. In 5-15 years they be westernized. Very unfortunately.
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@Linda ******
I was born and grew up in Germany with turkish roots. In the beginning of Covid (June 2020) I had enough of the nonsense and left Germany, bought an apartment in Turkey and planned to live there.

Came to Thailand end of December 22 just to stay 3 months. Somehow I bought the 20 year elite visa and am stuck here 16 months already. I like it here but also miss a lot of things I love about Turkey.

Considering to purchase a condominium here in Thailand and living here during the European winter. But I can’t imagine staying here forever. It never feels like home, you’re always a stranger/farang here because of not looking Asian, while in Europe or any other western country it feels more like “home” because you look like most foreigners and most traditions and style of living is similar.

Hope it makes sense.
Sel *****
All the same. In the profile they writing “looking for true love” and when you ask “how much” they reply with 1500 baht 😆 Others date a new foreigner every week to get freebies and stay in nice condos.
Sel *****
Elite Visa is cheaper than girlfriend/marriage.