Not entirely true. I have one, got it in my home country, cost $200, and I had to provide photo and flight itinerary to Thailand. No other documentation required.
Depends on exactly what you have. If you have a multi-entry visa that hasn't expired, you're good. If you have an extension to stay stamp without a re-entry permit you're out of luck.
Hotel will file TM.30 when you check in, not your responsibility. You could do it as well, but you would likely need a letter from the hotel saying you're staying there.
I overstayed by 4 hours a couple years ago, they didn't put an overstay stamp, a different kind of stamp noting the overstay, but approving it, no fine either. They let me off the hook basically. Every time I enter, the immigration officials look at, but it's never been an issue.
However after saying that, I wouldn't recommend it, you're likely going to cause yourself unnecessary grief.
If you never plan on coming back, you could chance it and hope you don't get arrested.
You're best off going to immigration and explaining the issue, they should provide you a legal solution. Worst case 1900฿ might be money well spent.