You said "woman foreigner they never ask for financial but I also got a single entry non-o", this can imply that if you had ask for a multi entry they may have asked. Your wording was a bit confusing because its as if the single entry was important which it wasnt. There is no proof of funds for you regardless single vs multi entry.
Again, not what I'm asking. Most people here are from countries that will be on such list. No disrespect intended to India, Pakistan, most African countries, etc, it's always harder for them. Any proof or link of such 90 days new visa exempt?
You are confusing two things; 1) Price of rent ; 2) Cost of living (which you described in your post). 120k baht for everything is normal, but just for rent is a complete scam. My point is that these hotels are scamming you because you are asking them things nobody asked them before. People who stay months to years will stay in villa, condo, etc, NOT in hotel (and condo will have swimming pool, gym, service if you ask, etc). I'm guessing that you are doing all of this online, which add to the scam. To avoid getting scam, go there yourself while in Thailand, you will realize how absurd 120k baht a month is. Also, the other reason I thought of a troll post is because of the location (Pattaya). Have you been to Thailand before? Are you currently in Pattaya? Pattaya is very cheap compare to Bangkok and Phuket. And the location you mentioned above seems to be where your kids will see half-naked women selling their body on the daily. This is why overall I still believe you are trolling. It's not a good location for your kids, and the price is absurdly high for the location, hence why avoid hotels because they can see through their screen a total fish willing to get scam.