Nooo. The house Blue book is for Thai nationals, they can sign you in as a tenant, called Yellow Book, with your name in it. That is the most you can get.
That took me 1 month to get, I am the owner of the condo, I bought it. Bangkok, Samut Prakhan. Thai wife and daughter have the Blue Book, me, the owner, Yellow book.
You are not puting the land into your wife's name that is how it must be, nobody is asking whether you agree or not. You have no any right to any land ownership in Thai.
I am sending money to my daughter, a triple citizen (Thai, Australia, Japan) now a student in Australia. From my Japanese acount. She recevies the funds within seconds。An Australian bank (ANZ), no transfer fee (when you have over 100 ,000 AUS$ in your Japan account).
I do not think it spoils anything for anyone. Imm officer will see on their screen and act as per their rules. An idividual is immaterial. Either stamped in or deny entry.
What Imm oficers may be after are abuses of border runs (even those are tolerated to an extent). Even then, they would tell "get a proper visa, this is the last time we are letting you in".