I may be mistaken but I seem to recall reading you need to be in the country where you applied while your DTV is being processed. Entering Thailand on visa exempt during processing is a no no. While this is unrelated to what you experienced on this occasion it might be another issue you have to deal with.
I don’t think simply having money in your wise would count as remitted into Thailand, but the moment you pay/withdraw using wise in Thailand you are bringing money in. This is just my understanding, I could be wrong.