@David *********
I get it but some people dont have the luxury to visit first. People move all the time for different reason like domestic violence, military, health ect. In those cases visiting is not an option. People have thier reasons and all we can do is try to be as helpful as possible. Every individual is different. I dont own a single name brand item and I definitely dont mind throwing away everything. We have done it before. It just gets frustrating at times because the groups are meant to be helpful instead it seems the negativity and nasty comments always outweigh the help. I appreciate your advice though. Thanks!