Really do not bring much most places are already furnished start fresh no winter clothes you can get new clothes, shoes, cheaper here no electrics power plugs are different so end up with multiple adapters its a pain can get books in exchange at most bars.
When your ready just book a flight and when you arrive they will do it all for you will cost a bit but they open bank account and do all paper work just sit back relax takes about 3 to 4 weeks they cover all your expenses etc. All they need is your passport.
Never allow wife to control YOUR money do not allow family to move in don't have a child they can blackmail you with make sure you have enough money in hidden bank account if you need to escape.