Welcome back .untill all restrictions are lifted the authorities will find a way to make money out of anyone comming back one way or another.so sad as the people don't deserve this all they want to do is work but without tourism they have nothing I genuinely feel for the poor Thai people in the tourist areas and the ones who have had to return home with nothing.
Don't let your little head rule your big head .wait until you decide if your going to live hear with her or not .then and only then come over and give her a monthly allowance that you can afford .