@Kevin *********

To many her sister after she dies? Really helpful and considerate.

@Gardar **************************

Thanks you.

I seriously thought this was a group whose purpose was to provide advice based on their own experiences for people seeking help on their individual issues. But when a “Top contributor” makes comments like the one below then another idiot suggests I push her down the stairs it’s obvious this is only a joke to your members. I’ll seek my advice elsewhere. Please remove me from the group.

@Kevin *********

I’m glad my situation gives you humor. I’m simply looking for advice on an issue I’m going through with the woman I’ve spent almost 50 years of my life.

@Wannikea ********

and Doug. Thank you. Her cardiologist expects she has 1-2 years. She has a heart valve that was replaced in 1987 that’s failing and she doesn’t want to go through that surgery again and I’ll respect her decision. I thought the most reasonable option was the cheaper marriage visa for the first year then transfer or reapply for retirement visa if possible. Thanks for the advice.

@Doug *******

Thank you Doug. Some people are just idiots. I guess he also never read that her health is failing and she wanted us to spend what time she has left with her family in Thailand.

@Chris ******

Thanks for your advice and for your concern for my wife.

@Chris ******

at this time I don’t have 800,000b but I have the 400,000. I have $2600/month pension and $2500/ month SS so I can easily start b/month transfers and convert to retirement visa based on income after the first year if that’s possible. Do I need to have my own account or can we make hers a joint account?

@Richard ********

I get that but the problem is her agitation. With the stroke and now dementia she gats angry. The Quetiapine helps some but I’m afraid she’ll become unmanageable.

@Lone *********

Thank you.