Please, check up what's happening around in Thailand, don't be in a rush in going to Thailand now. However, if ur girl friend is dying, u sud immediately come here.
If things are related to family issues, I would not say anything. But things like, looking for a job, vacation, meeting my Thai girl fren, etc should be postponed for a month or two.
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