It can be done if you have a Thai bank account and 800k in it but some Immigration Offices will not do this conversion so you need to say where you will be doing this
Yes, anything such as what you listed with your name and address will do. You have a visa so the recent announcements regarding border bounces does not apply if you have a valid visa such as a METV.
In theory yes but some Immigration Offices will not issue the 60 day Visit Thai Family extension on a tourism entry stamp and others will only issue this if the 30 day tourism extension is taken first. The answer is the OP qualifies for a Non-O marriage visa which gives the required 90 days on entry so Immigratrion will be pushing more in this direction now.
Will you get a 30 day extension on a land border Visa Exempt entry? I've not seen the official announcement that was due today. What you could do is take the 60 day "Visit Thai Family Extension" before you border bounce so that you don't need to extend your entry stamp to get your 6 months.
Try messaging the RTE London on Facebook which I have done in the past and got my visa hours later. Give your name, passport number, application Request Number etc. when communicating.