Let’s keep this factual, personal attacks only show your lack of solid arguments and global comprehension of the situation...
Nobody is questioning your age, intelligence or experience, we’re discussing immigration logic, not personalities! This is not the topic at all.
If you come here asking for opinions or avices but refuse to acknowledge the factual reality of your situation, then there’s little point in complaining afterward.
You’re mixing two different things: length of stay and purpose of stay.
Yes, 60 days is legally allowed. No one disputes that! 👍🏼
But immigration does not assess only the number of days : they assess intent. That’s exactly why different visa categories exist (tourist, marriage, retirement, ED,...)
Presenting an invitation letter from a Thai partner and mentioning an upcoming marriage clearly shows non touristic intent even if the stay is 60 days.
That is precisely why the officer warned you for next time. The warning itself confirms their assessment. Ignoring what the officer clearly told you is exactly how people end up facing problems at immigration later...
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