well, I've been here for close to a year and haven't yet been robbed or got into any situation where I felt unsafe. There are some sketchy areas but I just don't go there. And when I do venture anywhere unknown or potentially dangerous, I just don't carry anything much worth stealing. A second, cheap phone is handy for that reason.
I live in Cebu. I like it here. I'd recommend it only if you're planning to stay in the Philippines for a while. And I'd certainly recommend it over Manila in that case.
There's a direct flight from Bangkok Tuesdays and Sundays, I believe, although it's overnight at some unsociable hour.
It's a fun little city with loads of incredible places to visit, all a short hop by plane, bus, or ferry.
If you're not a seasoned traveler and/or have never been to the Philippines before, I do recommend you do some research beforehand though. It ain't Thailand out here.
they wanted a letter from a company signed by an authorized person confirming ongoing employment-- so I wrote myself a letter, since I'm self-employed... apparently that's acceptable. I'd already submitted a legal work contract I'd signed with an agency, but they wanted this as well.
They also wanted bank statements showing a closing balance of £11k. Again, I'd already submitted screenshots and highlighted the last year's worth of invoices being paid to my account, as well as my stocks & shares ISA, but they wanted actual statements with my name & address on it (my RBS digital banking doesn't have it on so had to actually go to the bank and get paper copies and then scan them).