@Tony ************
Why, not everyone has a bad experience or relationship, if u believe u can’t trust your wife, why get married.
Been with my partner over 15yrs, bought early in the relationship
My attitude is, we have been together for a while, even if it doesn’t work she deserves something from the relationship, otherwise you’ll be looking over your shoulder for the rest if you’re life
Loosen up.
But I’m guessing you’re a Brit.