Seems you not love your wife or you would pay for her to have the operation to be pain free and let her wait till it too late for a Thai hospital to do it very cheap
but if you do a land visa run when come back into Thailand you not get 60 days entrance only 30 days as if you fly out and then fly back to Thailand you get 60 days exemption
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