@Edwin *******

- thank you Edwin such lovely words. I am finding peoples comments 'healing'. I just need to put the jigsaw together and hopefully I'll be able to accept that I couldn't have done anymore. As for someone 'new' I want only friendship and support and I do have some good friends to turn to so hopefully they will help me 🙏🏼

@Steve *******

- thank you Steve very wise words. I am beginning to feel a little better reading everyone's comments that I did my best. I do think it's natural though to question if you made the right calls. The problem was we weren't given the correct information to make the correct decisions. If we had she would have passed away in Thailand with her family and friends around her. Anyway thank you for being so honest. As I said I am trying to put the jigsaw together once it's fitting into place maybe I'll be able to come to terms with what has happened better 😔🙏🏼

@Kelash *******

- thank you Kelash I appreciate your kind words and thoughts. I am trying to come to terms with it and I guess I am analysing everything including myself. Knowledge is everything and sadly we weren't given the information we should have to make the correct decisions 💔😔🙏🏼

@Bam ****

- thank you Bam Bam everyone has said this and everyone said that I did as much and more than possible. I can't help but wonder about many things though maybe it's just my personality? It's the 10 day window and fact they did nothing for 6 weeks that's upsetting me the most. She fought to the end she just needed a little help 💔😔🙏🏼

@Bonnie ******

- thank you Bonnie I am seeking answers. They let it grow even bigger here twice as big we think. I can't help wondering if it was removed immediately she might have had a chance but I respect your opinion. It was regarded as large from first detection 😔🙏🏼

@George ********

- thank you George I have read a little but will check out your link 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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@Brook *******

- sorry its just a bit personal and difficult but it was partly generic and I got an overwhelming response that the money would most likely never be seen again

Thanks all for your replies.

It's actually to protect my sisters money. I think she will ever see it again and thought something in writing might at least offer some protection.

I am hoping it won't be necessary but from what I have seen concerning the beneficiaries it will never be seen again. Let's put it this way it wouldn't be my money.

@Gregory ********

- just to let you know I also use Wise.

It's brilliant has up to the minute live market rates.

What I do is set up a transfer having checked the rates...I then take it if I think it will go down on the day...I check how long they are guaranteeing the rate and I select the option 'make bank transfer later'....if rate goes up within the time frame I take another at the point of wanting to complete and cancel the earlier one...this gives me basically more money especially if the transfer is a fair bit.

If you do it this way its the cheapest in terms of their fees. So to be clear it is set it up but use I'll transfer it later and when you are ready to complete you transfer from your bank account into Wise account...its that simple.

I also have a BKK account and intend to look into other options when I return but tbh if you take the cash out you need for the day it's not a problem apart from security...this is why I will try and get an app/online option when I return 👍🏼