Yes I like independence, both in men and women! I have not met anyone trying to control anyone, however I would not be interested either way! I was just wondering what is the point in being in a relationship, if the attraction seems only to be financial? You share the same house, cook for 2, have one vehicle, because of financial reasons! Other than that we would be 2 individuals going our separate ways. That is what I have noticed with Thais! Western women seem to want to control everything and everyone! I think it is western men who are subservient! Thanks for the feedback!