that's good that your emoloyer is doing thaf, i'm sure you will get it okay. Here is the london based agent i used in December for the same. He is very responsive and efficient >>>
Trust your gut. Share with her and treat her well, but keep all your resources under your control and ownership, as they are after all YOUR resources that you've worked for. No woman would give a man ownership and control of her resources, in fact most wouldn't even share. Reflect on that.