Yeah, I'm ok with that. When you come to a country to "get" by whatever means, a girl, then you deserve getting taken to the cleaners. We're not a commodity.
If you want the agreement that you're describing, then you get what you get.
You know exactly what I'm talking about, honey. You think this soldier thing makes me see anything but entitled? It doesn't. Most entitled people on the planet; and with a chosen career field to kill people, yeah, that's a hard pass.
Your words were getting scammed; aren't the Thai women getting scammed at the same time? I have absolutely no problem with western guys getting "scammed" - if scam and procure come up, then I hope they're taken to the cleaners; it simply implies buying people. It is simply exploitation.
I'm happy for your good marriage, and I know of many good, Thai/western marriages; but every guy who comes to Thailand to find a wife/girlfriend that is not a partner, deserves everything they get.