Hey
@Tod ********
, I am very big on constructive criticism is how we grow and get better. It’s great to see everyone praising you for the great job you have done! You have even helped me personally on several occasions and I am very grateful! 🙏🏼 But I think it could be helpful to point out a few things I have noticed over the years for you to possibly take into consideration.
- Sometimes your posts can be so direct that it comes off a little bit “high horse”. Like I know more than you, thus I’m better than you. I think some of that is due to the fact that we are a very diverse multicultural group. So we are all used to talking to each other differently. I can at least understand why some people might feel slightly insulted by some of the directness. Me personally I think it just comes from the fact that you are forced to answer a lot of the same questions over and over and over again. That would wear anyone down! But I don’t think new members are going to understand that.
- Sometimes the thread locking can seem a bit aggressive and uncalled for. I understand most of the time it’s because you don’t want misinformation in a thread AFTER a clear answer has been given. But sometimes there are more examples of experiences within the community that could prove useful. I personally had one locked years ago before a trip to immigration. I tried to come back to it after my trip to update my real would experience and I couldn’t. Some of the best info I’ve gotten on here was community members sharing direct experiences. So when so many threads get locked, sometimes it comes off as “Tod has spoken, so nobody else needs to talk.” Or a little bit like a power trip of some kind. Again, I think I understand the reasons it’s done, I’m just saying I also somewhat understand the occasional frustration about it. I’ve seen it discussed in other groups even. It takes away from the community aspect of it I think.

All that being said I voted yes stay obviously. 😇 You’re a great wealth of Thailand knowledge and your willingness to take time out of your life, and it’s a lot of time, to share with us makes our lives easier and much better. I am sorry that someone is going to the extreme they are to give you problems! Calling the cops? 😬 It’s a Fb group, it’s not that serious!
Lastly let me personally thank you for the help you’ve given me, and for running the group. Sooo much information in here! I view your moderation here like the most over worked, under paid customer service job! You’re doing a great job and the community obviously appreciates you. Best wishes man! 🙏🏼