that's exactly why he asked a bunch of people 🤡 and that's exactly why "he even called the hotel" 🤡 .. you've alot to learn and don't quite get what เกรงใจ means . One of the reasons Farlang can't speak Thai is the fact that it doesn't translate into English and MANY things are lost in translation .. drop your EGO and it will start to make sense in a year or two.
The visas are built on uncertainty . Having a villa,wife and dog will count to nothing when immigration check you out at the airport on re-entry. You should be ok ,But!!!