@Ellen ************

For sure. Beannacht

@Ellen ************

yes, but it is possible is my point. If you take it easy and communicate properly.

I was introduced to my Fiancee by a friend who did a yoga course where she was managing the welcome centre office, so not an online dating app.

I am 61 and she is 53.

After talking via whatsapp for 6 months, I have been to see her several times and lived with her for between 30 and 50 days each time and we have gotten on like a house on fire. She has made it clear that she wanted no money from me (in fact if i spent too much she would end it), she paid for some stuff we did together without telling me.

For me, she is doing this for genuine reasons. We will look to marry in Thailand and then after a few months get ready to move her to the UK. While I can meet the financials for that, and show the relationship is genuine, one criterion she has stated is that she wants to work and not rely on my finances.

@Jim *******

Hi Yes thanks for responding. I was aware of that. i was also, for future reference, looking at the family visa over 60 days as will be getting married, and the Finances are different but would also look at the amount in sterling.... but that is down the line i think.

but once again, thank you for taking the time to respond.

@Jordan ****

I thought as much. Thanks for your reply.