I used to fly West Coast of Australia (Perth) to LA every 4 weeks (and return in between).
I’ve always just set my watch (and all my devices) to the destination time as soon as I get on the plane and behaved as if I’m in that time zone from that point on. If I arrive in the afternoon I just treat it as the afternoon on arrival and honestly apart from maybe 1 or 2 nights of disruptive sleep it’s a non issue.
I used to travel Oz to UK with work when younger and have travelled to US a lot so long flights (20+ hours of flight time) are no big deal but I reckon a decent chunk of jet lag is mental. Just trick your brain and get on with it.
Edit: I also rarely drink anything except water on flights. A long flight dehydrates the crap out of you, alcohol makes it worse, which hurts your in flight rest and how you feel on arrival.