it is factually becoming impossible to travel or "return" to Thailand from just anywhere. There is no way to get the required "covide-fre" certificates and the insurance. His ONLY way out is BACK HOME to Kansas
a METV can only be applied for in one's home country, most embassies or consulates in neighbouring countries don't offer it to non-residents. Given this and the fact that now all neigbouring countries stopped issueing VOA or visa-exempt entries, there remains only one way - that's the road back to the home country
as US passport holder, you can still do a border bounce flight to Vietnam. There is a list of countries whose citizens cannot do a visa-free entry to Vietnam any more, and I think, the USA are not on that list. However, boarding a flight to Thailand in Vietnam could pose to be impossible without presenting a medical clearance and a travel insurance covering a covid-19 infection up to the amount of 100,000 USD. Please check on the US embassy Vietnam website for instruction and guidance
I have been crossing this border a few times, it is used by many foreigners, too. And actually an easy going in-and-out border. The main road from Ubon Ratchathani to Paxxe, pretty busy everyday
the IATA list from today, 9:15 am, does not mention any requirements for US citizens who have been to Cambodia, to present anything upon entering Thailand