YOU ARE BEING SCAMMED!!! It has happened to me too. I know of what I speak. If you continue on after we all have warned you... you will just be joining the club of men who let their heart or penis clear their bank account. Your not a fool nessarily, but you are acting foolish.
don't send women you've never met money PERIOD! Stop now! I know it's hard and embarrassing. It's happened to me with a Filipina years ago. I lived with my Thai feincee now for 5 years before I would send her money.