I read that in one of the comments above and you said she would send the money back on the 6th. Why is she waiting so long when she could send it back immediately? That should be raising some red flags for you.
wow. You’re really assuming a lot from my comment. Xeonophobic? Not hardly. My husband is Thai.
I’m trying to be honest with this kid and help him. I don’t think he even realizes what he’s getting into. You can’t honestly tell me things like this don’t happen here all the time.
You’re young, you’re naive. You have a lot to learn about Thai women, have you met her in person? She looks like a ladyboy to be perfectly honest. Cashing a money order here is not difficult. It really sounds like you’re being scammed hard. Stop sending her money, then see if she still “loves” you or if she ghosts you. You’ll have your answer pretty quickly.
He sounds shady. If there’s no rental contract, move to another home. My old landlord tried to do this, but the school I work for had a chat with him and he did the paperwork.