@Steve *********
Definitely I picked up on that 🤣🤣🤣
It’s actually quit sad in a lot of ways that people do get taken for the entire life savings from a lot of these scams.
There is actually a handbook for the lady’s to know how to play their mark.
Heaps of these lost souls literally end up in the gutter and deported because of overstays back to a special pice of hell back in the very same countries they were running away from. Welcomed back home “parties” with condescending relatives who just say “ I told you so “ or “ saw that coming “ then the depression really begins. This is the real unseen and not talked about results of these scams.
It’s not that I’m discouraging relationships it’s just please people do some research on the basics. If one wants to make the big commitment then do the research and talk to a lawyer.
I heard heaps of stories like this because from the toilet in my apartment I had in Bangkok I had a heap of girls living on my floor. They would meet in the hallway sometime more than 5 just calling all these guys everywhere with all the excuses. They were in the hall because they wouldn’t smoke in their rooms but chain smoke, drink, make phone calls asking for money from what it seemed like every contact in their phones. Once a week they would throw away all the flowers they got from their admirers. Wasn’t easy to miss like two full size garage cans overflowing with these flowers. I did see and read some of the cards because once it’s in the trash it’s no longer private property. All the cards had different names from sooo many men and sometimes even woman. Was like a “Boiler Room” or a “Boiler Hallway” and my toilet window faced the hallway and since most of the hall was made of concrete and tiles sound carries. I would spend literally hours listening and this was usually started Monday night and went to Friday night. Weekends and some weeknights were for work. It was something else and I had to walk by multiple times a day they would be having some kind of cook outs with top quality food and alcohol. With desktops and laptops. They were very calculating usually starting at 10-30k depending on how vetted the “mark” it was on !
It was something else. This wasn’t a win off for them it was their “job” I will give credit for the work ethic.
That’s why I would be very weary of starting anything seriously. Other than being in the “Friend Zone”
Actually I tell them that.