@Colin ********
There are some excellent YouTube channels by Thais that can teach you the basics. I learned most of my Thai by something called immersion just living with the Thais , observing and listening. Perhaps not the easiest way but for myself it was. Besides when I first arrived here in 2001 I had very little desire to be around other foreigners and within days encountered so many obnoxious foreigners their behavior towards the Thais that was a turning point. If you are serious about a country and its culture you are not going to learn much on tours or following others like sheep.
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