yes it’s called love. Save until you have money. Marriage does have a significance but all it is is just writing on a paper. Wait til your well established instead of rushing into marriage for love
probably should have looked into this before booking and asking one week before your flight??? Maybe im just paranoid and like to plan but personally i wouldn't have booked a hotel or flight until I knew about the visa details. But everyone makes their own decisions and choices. To each their own. Also you may need to look into Covid and health insurance. Its also said to be required for entry but i've read that they don't check