My point being in all of this 1. I'm not stupid 2. I am always polite and speak a little Thai. 3. I was dressed I believe fine (I am a 40 year old businesswoman) but mostly 4. THEY NEVER ASKED ME FOR MY PROOFS.. just said I had been in Thailand for a long time.. essentially suggesting I was working. They wouldn't even look at my documents.
Tbh.. I was for sure not the only person crying not allowed in..
Thank you all and okay people I'm in. Was just reading through your comments then realised I should update first. Nearly 4 hours of holding back the tears. Persistence pays off...