What are the requirements for the marriage visa regarding financial proof and address matching in Thailand?

You seem a bit confused.

You start with a 90 day non-O visa. This will be either from a Thai embassy outside of Thailand or from immigration within Thailand.

After about 2 months you can then go to the immigration office and apply for a 1-year extension. The ONLY thing immigration will accept for this first year is a Thai bank account with 800,000 or proof of income certificate from your embassy. If your embassy does not offer the income verification then the bank account balance is the ONLY option.

During this first year, you can start making monthly transfers of 65,000 baht or more from overseas. You must still meet the requirements of your extension so that means your bank account must remain at 800,000 baht for 3 months after you receive your extension and it can never drop below 400,000 baht.

The following year, when you go for your extension, you will have to show them your 12 month bank statement that shows you had the 800,000 for 3 months, never dropped below 400,000, and that you receive 12 months of transfers. If you can meet all those requirements, then you can switch to monthly income for the SECOND year if your embassy does not offer income verification.