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>I read the dependant visa requirement and some said it's impossible for parent to follow child over 20 y.o. so I was wondering is it true
That's for a different extension of stay. Children under 20 years old may be in Thailand to study, and the parents can get an extension of stay based on being a guardian to the child. The parent will need 500K THB in a Thai Bank Account, seasoned for three months (if my memory serves me correct). Naturally, your mother-in-law will not qualify for that visa or extension of stay.
Bangkok Immigration Office sells the extension of stay you're looking for, but I'm not sure what the other immigration office requirements would be:
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(it's number 20 on the drop-down list).
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533-f7b2c5af-d138 (it's number 20 on the drop-down list).