finally someone who understands. Starting to think I was an idiot for thinking this is possible but I know of people doing this and seems easy. My main issue is regarding the bank account
yes she is here legally with a work permit and we are married under thai government so I can get a visa based on hers allowing me to stay a year but without being able to work.
Ok I think you misunderstand because I've checked I can do this. It states I need a thai bank account to do this, however when I've tried they tell me I need a work permit to open one