@Henrik ****
pfff, the visa does not start any sooner if they issue it a day before travel or a month. Once they give the visa you have to enter the country within 3 months, so issuing it a day ahead instead of 3 weeks ahead of my travel date makes no difference to me at all.
My ticket to Thailand started on the first lag and the stopover had nothing to do with the issue at hand.
If you read the comments, this is an issue many people have with this particular embassy.