@Shawn *******
and sadly that you're confused by it is neither here nor there :/
You're looking for logic where there is none.
During the under consideration period they do home inspection and you NEED to be there, (not have relatives say you'll be back). ;)
That's how it works to get a year extension based on marriage.
When you go to apply for the year extension ASK them if you can travel around and see what they say.
If they tell you that you can, then you can, if they say you can't then you can't until AFTER you go get the year extension inked in.
It's not brain science or rocket surgery here
AND
it's only a 30 day under consideration period, One more time I will mention that your ability to stay IN the country far outweighs you wanting to travel around
Good luck,
I think you got your answers and are just belaboring the point that you don't feel you need to sit tight during the under consideration period. Take it up with your immigration office when you apply for the year extension. They would be the ones to tell you what you can and can't do :)