@Justin *******

right now I saw the Thai government saying they will give huge benefits for any foreigners buying a condo.. they are giving you some sort of citizenship wher you can work and go through the Thai check in at airport.

Wish I had the money for that now.. before they take it back.

I'll get back to living there again someday

@Justin *******

have a great time my friend.. be careful and learn a bit of Thai before you go. Loads of lessons on YouTube.

Thailand changed my life.. hope all goes well for you.

Just let you know.. I can give you an honest opinion on anything.. even in yrs to come. Just ask

@Justin *******

good to hear it. All I wanted to do is make you realise things do happen.. it's best to know everything before committing.

I am in a decent relationship and her family is my family but it took me 12 years to find it. I thought I'd found it years before BUT I was wrong and couldn't talk to anybody about it.. which was sooo frustrating.

Live within your means.. everything you give her has to be a gift from you.

To answer your original question.. 55

I opened a thai back accounts for my lady. I send straight from my bank to hers if I have to. It takes 3 or 4 (working) days. UK bank charge me £10 to send ANY amount.. the Thai bank fluctuates between 300bht to 500bht charges

@Justin *******

555... thats what she's doing right now mate. If you don't know what 555 means.. you know nothing at all about Thailand young man. These people on here are trying to save your heart.. sanity.. and maybe your life.! The only lady worth giving money to in Thailand is the lady that doesn't ask for money. Then you give her it AFTER you have met her.. spent time with her.

If you think I'm just being another Kn÷b telling you what to do... I've lived and worked in Thailand and been going for 23years. I feel sad when I see on thai TV that another falang has jumped from the 15th floor of a pattaya condo. Because he gave the girlall his trust.. heart.. and money..

My girlfriend's in my early yes made me think.. how can a farther send his little girl to Bangkok pattaya or phuket.. knowing she will f÷cking random guys from the USA.. UK.. Australia.. blar blar..

How.? Because the daughter isn't though of the same as a son. Its a different culture to the home you live. Scamming money from several men.. constantly is the normal thing for a bar girl.

To marry your lady you will need to pay the parents.. pay for 2 day party.. pay for her home.. (which you have NO rights to) being a foreigner.

You really need to wake up man. Don't send.. see if she wants to meet still. If she tells you to send or you don't meet. Get yourself on another dating site.. or BEST.. wait till ya get there to meet any lady. Choose a girl from the or hairdresser. They still might be after your money.. but at least they are willing to workers day

Only send money.. help her out.. IF you can and want to. But please.. Read up on Thailand/ girls / sending money. You will find a flood of horror stories lasting many many years.. have children.. then find out she always had a thai boyfriend or husband that is ok about her seeing you for money. IT DEFINITELY HAPPENS A LOT.!!!

IF YOU ARE NOT %1,000,000 SURE WHERE SHE IS EVERY DAY AND NIGHT.. DO NOT SEND. THERE ARE 1,000S OF NEW GIRLS TO CATCH UP WITH ON YOUR NEXT VISIT. Which you can afford to do because your not sending money. Your saving.

Me.. I've been going to Thailand for 23years now. Had 3 girlfriends.. my current lady I've been with for 12yrs.

I know what I'm talking about.. I should be retired and living there now.! But I'm not because of stupid decisions i made in the early yrs. I thought I had a girl that was totally different to the money scammers everyone talked about.. but it was all a waste of time looking back.